No, this is not a blog about some stupid rip-off! We’ve actually been robbed! This is one of those things you read about in the paper or see on the news and think “That really sucks!”, but you don’t ever expect it to happen to you! I mean, after all, we live in a nice neighborhood and people around here are watching out for each other. And yet, it did happen!
My friend/roommate and I came home from work and found a bunch of paper spread out in the living room. Wondering what it was I looked at it and discovered it was paper from a lunch meat bag. Now, I have some smart dogs, but could for the life of me not figure out how they got in the refrigerator! AJ opened up the fridge and the empty package was in the fridge! Now that was just really weird and I got this really bad feeling. I walked around the corner where my laptop sits and sure enough – it was gone! I raced to my office. The door was open (it never is) and I screamed! I keep a safe in my office with valuables – cash, coins, papers, etc. The safe was there – in the middle of the room, busted wide open and empty! The room was a mess, stuff spread everywhere! I raced to my bedroom, AJ to hers. Drawers wide open and rifled through in both rooms, the same in the closets. Jewelry, digital camera, etc. – gone!
I called 911. They told us to get out and don’t touch anything. We went outside. I went to one neighbor, she to the other. Nobody had seen a thing! We walked around the house and found a broken basement window. Then the police showed up. We went back in the house and showed them what happened. They called CSI in. By now I am feeling like I’m in a movie. Except in the movies they always find evidence. Here – nothing! No fingerprints, no DNA – absolutely nothing! The officer said as long as she’s been on this beat (a long time), she never had to come in this street for anything. It’s a nice, quiet neighborhood. Other than the hit-and-run a few month ago, nothing ever happens here! And now this! She took the report, asked for suspects, the usual stuff. Apparently they broke a window in the basement and went upstairs, past the dogs (still trying to figure that one out), and spent several hours breaking into that safe with a crowbar and a big screwdriver which they left behind and going through every closet and dresser in the house.
That night I hardly slept at all. Every little noise has you sitting up straight, listening, wondering if they are back! At 1:30 in the morning I was on my desktop, changing user names and passwords! I called my boss and let him know I wouldn’t be in. There were lists to make and stuff to clean up.
Now, I am the type of person who deals with stuff and moves on. However, this one is a lot harder to “just get over”. The next day I tried to get the receipts together for the stolen items. I didn’t get very far. I felt like I was in the haze. It felt so unreal, like a bad dream I’d wake up from. I did not get much done that day. So I let the boss know I needed another day. Didn’t sleep much that night either. The next day wasn’t bad and I got everything together that I needed for the police and the insurance. Of course, the insurance is a joke. When I told them, the safe contained cash and coins, they informed me that this was covered for a total of $200! And that is not $200 per item, it is for the entire contents! Can someone tell me why I pay for insurance every month if that is all they cover?!?!
The next day I did some work for my office from home – thanks to remote access – and I felt okay. Until I had to leave the house to take care of some errands. It’s bad enough being at home and constantly listening to every little noise (did you ever notice how many noises there are in a house, especially with cats and dogs?), worried that someone is going to break in again. But when I returned I caught myself walking around the house looking for broken windows or anything suspicious before I entered it! And then I went through the whole house checking for anything out of order. When I locked the doors I went back and double and triple checked to make sure everything is locked! You begin to feel like a prisoner in your own house. You are afraid to be there and you’re afraid to leave. I never thought I’d feel that way, but I did!
If you have never been in this situation – and I hope you haven’t and never will be – it is the most intense and sickening feeling I have ever had! You feel so violated, powerless, and helpless! And you go through all those emotions, ranging from being angry to being mad, or sad or scared or helpless, and everything in between. I looked at that closet where everything is thrown on the floor and I just shut the door. I couldn’t deal with it. And I always deal with everything! This thing has brought me to tears more than once and I hated it and the bastards who did this to me! My home has always been my castle, a safe place, and now it’s not safe anymore. The castle was crumbling! And I couldn’t let this happen! My husband even offered to give up truck driving which he loves. Was I really letting these bastards change my life like that? No!!!
I was sick and tired of living in fear, constantly being in tears, and feeling paralyzed! So, I went and checked out several security companies with the BBB. I called a few of them, finally settled on Safe Systems and had them come out for an evaluation. Tomorrow they will install the new system. I will take all the stuff that the thieves went through and threw around and wash it (just the idea of them touching everything gives me the creeps)! And then hopefully my life will return to more normal. I don’t know if I ever will get over these feelings, but I sure as hell will give it my best shot. I am not going to let these bastards win and spend the rest of my life in fear! People tell me it will take quite a while before I’ll feel safe again, that I won’t feel quite so violated. I do know, that in the future when I hear about a break-in or a burglary, I won’t be thinking “That sucks, get over it”. I now know how you feel after something like that. Instead I will send a prayer to them.
I hope it never happens to any of you, that you will never have to go through this experience.
Oh, and don’t forget – check your insurance policy now!